Thursday, March 18, 2010

Happy Anniversary to us!

Today is the day I said "I do" to Lantis Hollis four years ago. It was an amazing wedding day. It was without a doubt the most fun day of my life. Everything was absolutely perfect. From the dress to the venues and everything in between...everything was perfection. It was my day to be a princess. I wish we could do it all over again and I wouldn't change a thing--including Lantis. No one said marriage was easy, and we've certainly had days that were tough, but we have proven to be able to handle it together. We make a great team. Whatever we do we're better at it together.

This afternoon when I got home we watched our amazing wedding video. CAM video, a friend of my parents, did the videography and it was better than I ever could have imagined. I wish I could show it to everyone. Its not your average wedding video. These guys are incredible and I have the most fabulous wedding video ever thanks to them. I watched it today with Lantis and we cried like we were living the entire event for the first time. I'm so thankful for the wonderful photos and video we have to help us remember the best day of our lives.

I cannot imagine my life without him. He is my sounding board, my support, my cheerleader, and now the father to the other love of my life, Hudson, and an amazing one he is.

We were married on March 18th, 2006 at Independent Presbyterian Church in downtown Birmingham. It is a beautiful very old church. I searched high and low for the perfect church and when I walked in IPC I started crying.I knew that was the one! Our reception was at Children's Hospital in the Bradley Lecture Center. It was perfect. They had screens with a slideshow of our photos rolling the entire time. The music was awesome and kept the guests on their feet. We had an absolute blast.



Independent Presbyterian


mom and sis attaching my train


my sweet daddy seeing me for the first time


















Lantis planned our honeymoon himself and it was a complete surprise to me. He told me to pack for warm weather and lots of bathing suits. During our first dance at the wedding he shared with me that we were leaving at 9 am the next morning for Atlantis. He arranged for complete VIP treatment. Limos, private check in, concierge service 24/7, the works. I can't even describe how incredible that trip was. Uh-ma-zing. Go there if you ever get the chance. We plan to go back one day for an anniversary. Here are a few photos of that trip:


Heaven on earth. Our room was just above and to the left of the bridge suite. We had an amazing view.






pool side happy hour!


the view from our balcony...aahhh


Also this day in history...our best friends, the Courson's, met at our wedding. Technically they met the night before at the rehearsal, but the wedding night was when the sparks started flying as you can see in the photo below. I love the way she is looking at him in the photo below. Alesha, my best friend from college, and Jason, Lantis' best friend from childhood, were both in our wedding party. We would have never paired them together, but now we can't picture them apart. They are a perfect match made in heaven...or at our wedding. ;-) We love you, you crazy Coursons!! Thank you for keeping our life entertaining!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Bye Bye Crib...Bye Bye Baby Hudson

Hudson's room took on a new look this past weekend. We did away with the crib and introduced the big boy bed. It was so sad for me. I was very emotional all weekend thinking about my baby boy sleeping upstairs on a bed. It made me feel like he was very exposed and vulnerable. I felt like he was much safer and secure in his crib. He could very nearly climb out of his crib and we'd noticed that he looked a little cramped in it. He almost looked too big for it. He's on the large size for his age anyway so I guess its no surprise that he looked like a grown man sleeping on a twin sized bed. We decided last week that he was ready for a little more independence and space especially with the big second birthday approaching this week. We had a big talk with him about the "big boy bed" and how special it was. We were afraid of several things: 1) his bedroom is directly connected to a bathroom, 2) his bedroom is upstairs, 3) he sleeps with a humidifier so I was afraid he'd try to play with that or the plug or something 4) he hasn't woken up in the night since he was 5 or 6 months old and is this going to mess up the sleep schedule? Of course there were a million other concerns, but we baby proofed as much as possible, gave it a try and said if it does not work we'll go back to the crib.

Friday night was his first night in it and he LOVES his new bed!! When we're playing in his room he loves climbing up on his bed and pretending to be asleep for mommy--complete with the fake snore! He's told everyone and bragged about his new bed. He totally took ownership of it. We told him that after we say our prayers and put him to bed at night he has to stay in it until we come up the next morning. He said, "ok!" and that's exactly what he's done. He has not woken up during the night. He lays down after bedtime prayers and says "night-night" just like he always has. When he wakes up in the morning he calls us and stays in the bed until we get there.

He's been fantastic! Looking back he's been an easy kid all around. He's made all of our transitions simple for us. I couldn't have ordered a better baby. Speaking of, this makes it official...he's no longer a baby, is he? He's a big boy in a big boy bed with a birthday coming up in a few short days. Wow. Well anyway, I'll get all emotional on yall in a couple of days when his second birthday is official. ;-) Here are a couple of pictures of his new bed that he loves so much. I'm having a couple of small throw pillows made that match his bedding that are going to be adorable. Yes, he sleeps with all those creatures plus two blankets. He kills me--theres barely room for him! Half of them are in the floor by the time morning rolls around except Bear-Bear of course. He never leaves Hudson's arms. They are quite the pair.




Sunday, March 7, 2010

A Successful Weekend

I am so thankful for the beautiful weekend we had. We had a very successful yard sale. It was without a doubt the best one we've ever had. We sold everything that we didn't want to drag back in the house. All that was left were old things like clothes and they were donated to the new thrift store in Leeds Saturday afternoon.


The swing set is complete and it is fantastic! It exceeds my expectations. Once again, Lantis has impressed us all he has set a new standard. He finished the playground this weekend and Hudson certainly put it to use. Hudson loved it. He acted like he's been on a playground every day of his life. He climbed straight up the climbing wall and went down the slide with no hesitations. He's a pro! I assumed I would have to purchase a baby swing for him to use right now. He's never been on a big swing to my knowledge and I wasn't sure if he would be able to hang on. However, he too impressed me. He hopped in the swing and started flying high. I would push him and he would say "high Mommy!" Seeing him enjoy it so much brought so much joy to our hearts. Lantis said it made all the hard work worth every second. Here are a few photos of our first playtime on Hudson's new swing set:




the finished product


Hudson and Daddy warming up the swings


and again


mastering the climbing wall


hanging out in his fort


ready to slide!



ready, set, go!


swinging "high"!


Daddy and Buddy ready to catch


peek-a-boo my baby boy



Lantis' parents stopped by Sunday afternoon. It was Becky's birthday and since the weather was so nice they were out for a bike ride. We made cupcakes for Bebe and we all enjoyed one--especially Hudson.



Happy birthday to Bebe!


Poppy testing out the swing


Those crazy kids enjoying the beautiful weather on their bike.









The little piece of Hudson that now lives in our backyard. I look forward to many afternoons out here.

Friday, March 5, 2010

Swing set progress

We have made great progress on the swing set and by we I really mean Lantis. I may have held a board or two or held the end of the tape measure. This is his first carpentry project. He was very nervous about getting it done right because he's a huge perfectionist, but I had complete faith. He's proven me right. Here are some photos: this is after day one. The fort is nearly complete and the arm for the swings and trapeze is in place.
This is after day two of work (yesterday). The fort is complete and the entire thing has been leveled which required us (him) to move some dirt around.

Next comes the slide, the rope/rock climbing wall and monkey bars. I can't wait to get out there and show my son my mad skills on the monkey bars! Ha!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

YARD SALE!!!!!!

We're having a yard sale this weekend! There will be 5 families participating. It is taking place at my house. If you or someone you know is into yard sales please come our way. This stuff isn't going back into my house, but into the Hannah Home trailer when the yard sale is over. If you need directions, email me. erinmhollis@gmail.com I'm not going to broadcast my address on the blog. :)

Here is a list of what you can expect to find:

A black metal bakers rack

riding lawn mower

random furniture pieces

women's clothes, dresses and coats (mostly size 6's and mediums)

baby boy clothes size 6-12 months

kid boy clothes size 8-10

girl clothes size 4

4 prom dresses circa 1999-2002. Dates not included. If you went to high school with me, insert jokes here_______________. I could do it myself but the choices were too vast.

3 or 4 pageant dresses

queen bedding set

king bedding set

misc tools

sporting goods

exercise equip

lamps

Christmas decor

dishes

misc household items and nick knacks

art

plus things my family members are bringing that I'm clueless about

and whatever else I can dig up out of my closets in the next two days.

If I have time I'll try to post some photos, but I probably wont. (Even though I know you'd love to see some of my high school prom photos!) I'll be too busy scrounging through junk in my house.

...and I thought last week was bad

Oh no. This week was sent from the devil. My sweet baby endured the evil stomach bug over the weekend then I started throwing up in the middle of the night Monday. I finally made it back to work today (Thurs). I was actually excited to get out of the house, put on something besides fleece pants, put on make up and blow dry my hair. Hudson was obviously stoked about getting out of the house as well this morning because he was screaming "Huddy school!!" the entire drive to school. I'll spare you the gory details of what I've been through the last few days, and I'll just tell you it was rough. My mom and mother-in-law are now going through it but I think both are recovering today. Lantis and both grand-daddies are still standing strong. So far so good for the men folk in the family which is crazy because Lantis has had so much contact with it.

I have said more than once that I think its totally unfair that I have to get the nasty bugs that Hudson brings home. I endured pregnancy, 28 weeks of severe morning sickness, labor and delivery, breast feeding woes, sick kid cleanup, explosive diaper changes, and numerous nameless other gross mom things that we all deal with. Haven't I earned immunity from nasty germs brought home from school and/or public places? Moms are incredible durable creatures. We are made extraordinary that's all there is to it. How else could we survive such things and still love our little ones so incredibly much that we don't think twice about kissing them right on their germ and vomit crusted mouths? We're just happy to get a kiss and put a smile on their faces.

Besides the stomach funk we've been dealing with all is well. Hudson and I feel great today. I'm in constant prayer that the men stay healthy and they do not have to endure it. I'm looking forward to beautiful weather this weekend! :)

Sunday, February 28, 2010

All's Well that Ends Well

Remember how my last post was about all the things that were going wrong last week? The debit card incident? dog covered in syrup? Any of those ringing a bell? I was afraid to blog about it too soon and ask what else can happen for fear of jinxing it and apparently I did...


Saturday morning I had a very early morning photo shoot that was about a 45 minute drive away from my house. I left at 8 and Hudson was still asleep which is somewhat abnormal. Occasionally he will sleep until 7:30 or 8, but not often. We're usually up and running between 6:30 and 7. In conversation before I left Lantis mentioned that he heard Hudson cough a couple of times in the night. I sleep like a log and I hear NOTHING in my sleep. Thankfully I married a light sleeper because when my lights go out good luck getting me up for anything including my child. I thought that would change when I had a child, but apparently I missed that motherly gene. Heaven forbid you have to wake me up in the middle of the night because I will act completely stupid and not remember a thing the next morning. I think I have some kind of sleeping disorder. Here's how bad it is: once (before we were married) my dad had to be taken to the hospital during the night. An ambulance pulled up to our house, medics brought a gurney into our house and rolled it down the hall past my bedroom, worked on my dad, rolled him out, took him away in the amulance and I never heard a thing. My sister woke me up the next day and had to tell me the entire story. Crazy I know...anywhoo...I went to my first photo shoot, took care of business, got back in the car and started driving to sessiong #2. I had a missed call and text from Lantis. He never calls when I'm working so I'm alarmed. The text says: "vomit everywhere, vomit contest, keep working, we're ok." I called him and he told me that Hudson slept until 9, when he went up to his room to get him up it was covered in vomit. Those weren't just coughs that Daddy was hearing in the night. The poor little guy was vomitting all over the place and mommy and daddy didn't even know it. Lantis said he wasn't holding anything--food or drink--down. He had been throwing up for the last hour and everytime he threw up Lantis threw up too because he has a really light stomach. I have never felt more horrible than I did at that moment. My baby has a stomach bug and is throwing up for the first time in his two little years and his mommy isn't there to hold him, wipe his mouth, clean him up, or tell him its ok. You know when you're sick you just want your mommy. On top of that Lantis is handling all this by himself and throwing up at the same time.


I still had one more photo shoot to before I could head home. I debated canceling but I knew she was having her hair done for the occasion and canceling wasn't an option. Next best thing: I called in the troops to take my place. This is when I'm glad that family is close by. I call my sweet neighbor and she had some Gatorade and she took it over to the house. I call my mom to go over and lend a helping hand--the loving mommy touch and her amazing ability to clean. My dad went to Walgreens for pedialite. Within 5 minutes all troops were assembled and on the go. However, little did we know, my efficient husband had already completely stripped the room of all bedding and stuffed animals and everything that had been contaminated. He had already starting washing things. He had already bathed Hudson TWICE! I wasn't shocked because that's exactly why I married him--he can do it all--but I'm always a little amazed even after 9 nine years together. Some men would freak out and retreat. Lantis tackled it all and did it throwing up.

I got home around lunch time and Hudson had been vomit free for about an hour or more. My mom and dad were gone. Almost all the dirty clothes and bedding were washed. The house was amazingly clean--all thanks to Lantis. All I had to do was lysol his crib and give my baby LOTS of love. He never threw up again, but he was a lot more quiet than normal and had a weak look in his eyes. We lounged around the rest of the day, read lots of books, watched a couple of movies, and exchanged lots of love. He took a really good three hour nap that afternoon and has been almost normal Hudson ever since--just a little more lovey than usual. He still hasn't been sick again, just an upset tummy. He still hasn't eaten anything substantial, but is drinking a lot so I guess its ok.

Today was a great day. We went outside to play and enjoy the sunshine and cure some cabin fever. Hudson seems to feel good. Lantis went and purchased Hudson's swing set that is his birthday present and started assembling it. He made great progress. Again, he can do it all. From building a swing set, repairing a car, knowing which stock to invest in, to taking over mommy duties when she's away. He's great to have around. :) This is going to be a great swing set. Lantis is a perfectionist and this is for his baby so he's taking great pains in making sure every board is level and every angle plum. He made great progress today and got the entire fort constructed. Needless to say I think the week/weekend ended well. So...all's well that ends well.


Hudson "helped" daddy with some of the building today with his toy tools which was too cute. He hammered, drilled and sawed on the lumber right with dad. I caught this little moment of them working together on my phone. They are so sweet.

This is a snapshot from our deck of our backyard as it exists today. Soon there will be a massive structure mixed in among the trees where Hudson can be a little boy.

I will have a swing set update when there's more to report so stay tuned.

I am looking forward to a great week and more beautiful weather next weekend!

Check out the Lens Envy blog for photos of this weekend's sessions.